What To Look For In A Partner

1. Is he/she caring, sympathetic?

2. Are they intelligent or do they just wing it?

3. Are they there for you when you need them?

4. What are their strengths/weaknesses?

5. Do they satisfy you in all ways of your personal life?

6. Are they faithful, or do they like more than one playmate?

7. Do they have an aire of sophistication about them, or do they simply not care?

8. Are they hygenic?

9. Are they good company?

10. Are they self reliant/sufficient?

You need to ask yourselves if any of these are alive in your partners, and if your single, find out which traits you would like in a partner and set out to find that special someone.

What Men Look For In A Woman

1.  Looks - Even if your not the best looking, make him think you are, just don't overdue it.

2. Personality - Be yourself, just don't scare him away, change it up a bit.

3. Self Reliance - If you have a job, house, and car, or even one of the three, he knows his whole paycheck is not going to you.

4. Intelligence - Show him your smart, but not too smart, men don't like it when women make them look dumb.

5. Defense- and I don't mean defensive, I mean that men wanta woman that can take care of and protect herself in case he's not there.

6. Seductive - Men want a woman, most of the time, that they can get right away.  Show him your interested, give him a treat, just save the main course for later.

7. Timely - Most women are never on time, but a man wants a woman that will usually be on time.  It is a form of respect, he opens the door for you, be on time for him.

8. Not Argumentative - Men don't like to argue, especially if the woman turns out to be right, just don't agree too much either.

9. Work Oriented - Men don't like it when a women works too much and has not time for him, yet on the same not, he doesn't want you hanging around him all day either.  Compromise.

10. Easy Going - Men don't like nagging women or women always prying into his business.  You accuse him of cheating enough times, then he'll eventually do it just so you can be right and move on.

A Wake Up Call For Women

Women seem to have it in their heads that they are free after a divorce.  Not true, an example of this is, my fiancé's daughter told her that this isn't her home, causing undo stress and possibly causing damage to my baby that she is carrying.  When she got in trouble, she said she wanted to go to her dad's and that she hated her mom.  My fiancé just told me that she got yelled at for letting me ground her daughter.  The fact of the matter is, it is my house and if she causes  problems, I will punish her.  He will not stay out of our lives at all.
You women need to realize, the men your with don't care about your ex husbands, they are not a part of you life, they are a part of your childrens' lives.  They do not need to talk to you or see you unless it is an absolute emergency about your children.  If they weren't good enough to keep your marriages together, then I don't see any reason for you to keep contact with them.

My fiancé's ex is starting to come between us because he won't leave us alone.  Ladies, don't put your ex up, and before, the man you say you love.  Because then, you just admitted to them you still want your ex before you even want them.  Think about it.

Why Do Men Suffer?

1. Women think they are stronger than us just by giving birth, but in reality, they are just having a painful experience in a different way.

2. Women put their exes up on a pedestal, making us feel like they would rather have them than us.

3. Women try to use emotions to manipulate us into doing what they want, when it doesn't work they get mad.  Too bad ladies, we are truly stronger, get over it.

4. Women seem to think that we should b able to do everything, well ladies, you need to step up and learn how to do things for yourself.  We're not your daddy's or your babysitters, get off your butts and learn something new.

5. Women never want to learn anything new, they want us to do it all.

6. We need help on certain things too, so help us out and quit being lazy.

7. Women try to change us after awhile because their families don't like the way we are.  STOP IT, we don't care one iota about what your families and friends think of us, we got this far in life by being who we are, not who people want us to be.

8. Stop trying to make excuses for us, we don't care what people think of us, and we never will.

9. When we're angry, they won't leave us alone and it infuriates us even more.

10. We're always being told what to do, ladies, stop telling us what to do unless you want to be single for the rest of your lives.

What Do Women Really Want?

A woman is a very complicated creature.  You never seem to know what they want.  They are, clever, suspicious, and very smart.  A woman likes to get control by letting men think they are doing what they want, when in turn, the women are really getting what they want.

Take a look at cheating, for example.  If a woman is caught cheating, the man just tries to believe he wasn't trying hard enough to satisfy her.  When a man is caught cheating, she leaves him cold, taking half of his stuff, if not more, plus the kids.  They treat him as if he just committed a murder.

Take a look at driving.  The man is always driving when they are together.  The woman just lets the man believe that is what he wants to do, whereas, in reality he is her chauffeur.

Look at a bar, men go there to try to pick up a woman, and he actually has to work for it.  Women only have to go to a bar and have a seat.  She just sits there and the men trip over themselves going broke, trying to win her interest just for a phone number.  Where is the justice in that.

The truth is, we're not mankind anymore, we're womankind.  They have taken over and forgotten their place since the dawn of time.  Should we allow this to continue, or can the men really say enough is enough and fight back for their rightful pair of pants in their castle?  I don't know, you tell me.

Who Is The Worst To Rush For Time?

Women-Women just have to think they can just take their time when plans are about to begin five minutes later.  If you, as a man, have a reservation at 8:00, chance are your date just started getting ready at 7:45 and you will not arrive until at least 9:00.  I have 5 older sisters, so I am speaking from experience.  Women, no matter how short their hair is, will take at least an hour for her hair.  And her outfit has at least a 30 minute timeline on it.  They know we'll wait on them, and they know it makes us angry.  But it's just the way they are.

Men- Men usually have a good reason for being late.  Whether their car broke down, or they simply forgot.  Yet, we don't try on a lot of clothes, we just like to be comfortable.  We also drag our feet if we don't like where we're going or what we're doing in the hopes of being too late to stay, just so we can leave.

Why Do Men And Women Have Affairs?

Lets look at this in two parts:

MEN cheat on women because it's in their nature, however, not all men cheat.  Men cheat because it's a thrill to them, an danger of getting caught.  It's not that they don't love the women they're with, it just means that they feel it's not spicy enought in the bedroom anymore and they want to be reinterested.  If the woman even allows a threesome with her and another woman occasionally, alot of men will not be tempted to cheat.

WOMENcheat on men because they are insecure about the relationship and are worried about their men cheating, so they cheat before he gets the chance to.  They are also demanding, guys naturally look at other women, but it doesn't mean anything.  Women make a big deal out of it and sents the man to cheat.  Women also like the thrill, they are also sometimes bored in the bedroom.  Men should introduce them to something new and exciting to spice up the bedroom, like a third partner, or role playing, to keep their women interested.

Overall, it's human nature to look for many different partners, it doesn't mean we're bad, just human.

Should Women Be Allowed To Drive?

To this day, every man wonders if it was smart to allow women to get behind the wheel and drive.  Women tend to get into more accidents than men due to the primary fact, they scare too easily.  When a woman hits a patch of ice, she freaks and slams on the brakes, possibly sliding into some type of fatal accident.  When most men hit ice, they let off the gas and guide the car until it loses momentum and they regin control, no matter how much their hearts jump.

Women also talk more on cell phones, and also have a big problem with putting on their makeup while driving.  That should be done before you leave the house, and women should also be courteous enough to pull off the road to talk on the phone.  I can't count how many times I almost got ran off the road due to a woman too engrossed on her cell phone to watch where she going.

Women also have the tendency to get more tired, more easily, than men.  So for long road trips, men should drive, that is, if they want to get to their destination in one piece.